A Powerful Self-Defense Tip For The Real World

 

WE spent some years studying ju-jutsu. Not the current fad form of ju-jutsu which is played as a sporting contest ——— i.e. MMA/UFC “Jiu-Jitsu” (which in our opinion is not the same as, nor is it as effective as the ju-jutsu of yore, which is all-combat, noncompetitive, and popular in the early part of the last century (often referred to at that time alternatively as “judo”, before the public became more sophisticated about the martial arts). This was in the 1960’s and 1970’s, although the U.S. Army and Marine Corps did instruct their men in ju-jutsu as early as world war one.

In the training that we received a great deal of time and technical effort was given over to learning counters to wrist and arm grabs, and to sleeve, collar, and lapel grabs. “Defenses” included distracting blows followed by arm locks, wrist-turning locks and throws, hip and shoulder throws, or simply painful disengagements. Some of the techniques were good. By no means were all or even most of them truly practical. They were esthetically pleasing and they were satisfying when working with our training partners because those partners cooperated with us. After weeks and months of mastering skills that —— with cooperative partners, not real attackers —— enabled us to wrap up the “assailant” in excruciating bone locks or limb twists, and throw him deftly to the (well matted) ground, confidence, often unrealistic, grew, enabling us to feel that we could literally make quick work of anyone foolish enough to grab hold of us! To the extent that the grabber would go no further than apply his grip, and simply stand there, allowing us to apply whatever countermeasures we wished to apply, our ability to employ the techniques that we learned was sound, and our confidence in them was justified. However, what we were not taught or prepared for is the fact that a wrist, arm, collar, or lapel grab is always a prelude to the actual damaging attack against us. And unless the attacker was slow moving and hesitant and we were lightning fast and perfect in our technique, we’d be punched, head butted, kneed, slammed into a wall or thrown to the concrete sidewalk and stomped. Or —— even worse —— we’d be stabbed or clubbed with his free hand, if the attacker’s grab was executed with only one hand. You see, this is the reality of dangerous, violent criminal attack. Street scum cares not a bit for rules, has no mercy, and is very capable of maiming or killing someone for little or no reason, save “fun” or “amusement” or imagined “insult”, etc. He doesn’t don a gi and spend 30 to 40 minutes warming up, then approach you and make sure that you’re ready, and then attack you so that you can defend yourself against the defense du jour.

We intend no disrespect or discourtesy here. Ju-jutsu, like all of the martial arts, offers great benefits, physical and psychological, to its participants. However, much of the classicism and traditionalism (and even some of its more modern theories of defense) are NOT the best for self-defense. They cannot be applied fast enough. They do not do sufficient damage. They depend too much on terrain and on other factors working out just right for them to stand a chance of working as they do in the dojo. And they are too complicated, relying as they do on ideal conditions, fine motor articulations, and on a slow, awkward attacker who has much, much less capability than you possess. They also are much too specifically oriented to very specific attacks. That’s why there are so many (sometimes thousands) of individual techniques of self-defense to learn in some ju-jutsu (and even in some karate) systems.

One lesson that we learned from immersion in wartime skills and the serious systems of hand-to-hand combat we studied is that which we would like to share with YOU. That is: clothing, wrist, and arm grabs are no threat (no one ever died from having his wrist[s] or arm[s] or clothing grabbed. No one). But many have been maimed, crippled, and killed after the enemy grabbed them thusly, by that which the enemy attacker did once he grabbed them. Note this for females: No woman has ever been seriously injured, raped, or killed by some pig she didn’t know approaching her and putting his arm around her shoulders and pulling her close to him. Nor has a female ever been devastated by a wrist, arm or clothing grab, or by a pig placing his hands on or around her waist, or by him placing his hands under her arms and lifting her off the ground. But many females have, unfortunately, been scared and intimidated by such actions and in consequence did nothing and were subsequently injured, raped, or killed by the pig because of what he did AFTER taking his initial intimidating action.

In response to a pig approaching her and pulling her close to himself after wrapping an arm around her shoulders, a petite young lady —— a model, in fact —— who we had only given two private lessons to, applied a ferocious tiger’s claw to the pig’s face with every ounce of her 115 pound body weight (which was quite sufficient!) and all of the speed she could muster. She ran away. She actually could have walked away leisurely, because the pig doubled over clutching his eyes and howling in pain.

Man or women:

NEVER MIND THE GRAB OR HOLD! HEAD BUTT THE BASTARD’S FACE, KNEE HIM IN THE TESTICLES OR FRONT KICK HIM THERE. OR TURN AND BREAK HIS KNEE WITH A SIDE KICK. OR CHOP HIM ACROSS THE NECK, THROAT, OR NOSE. OR BOX ONE OR BOTH OF HIS EARS AND TEAR THEM (OR IT) OFF HIS GODDAMN HEAD! CHINJAB HIM OR DRIVE FINGERS INTO HIS EYES. SCRAPE STOMP DOWN HIS SHIN BONE AND CRUSH HIS INSTEP.

Develop these and similar actions. Then build combinations for yourself so that should an assailant seize one or both of your wrists, or your arm, or your clothing, you explode like an enraged tiger and go after him relentlessly, until he is helpless, or until he runs away, or until you can safely escape from the scumbag.

THAT is self-defense that works.

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We want to make it clear that we are not suggesting that any type of grab or hold that any aggressor initiates against you should (or could) be dealt with in this manner. Only wrist, arm, and clothing grabs. Powerful choking attacks, Encumbering body holds. Mugging grips from behind, and all grabs and holds that in and of themselves actually do impose serious pain and injury. These types of holds do demand that they be broken or at least weakened before the attack against your attacker be initiated full bore.

With the above caveat we do believe that we have saved those visitors who are after serious and utterly effective self-defense the time so often wasted on learning techniques that are at best only semi-effective and at worst are too dangerous to attempt against angry, dangerous, stronger and larger violent offenders.

Good tip we think!

And good luck . . .

ATTACK THE DAMN ATTACKER! And when his “attack” amounts to a silly “setup move”, you must appreciate the opportunity it provides! go get him! Right now! The grab or grip or hold will vanish naturally as his leg breaks, as he can’t breath, as his jaw or neck is broken, as he is knocked unconscious, or his testicles are crushed.

 

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